Crystal Coleman
What it Do(ula) :An Uncensored Conversation about Dying
What it Do(ula) will dive into the importance of having the sometimes difficult conversations about death and dying. We'll discuss the reality of preparing for End of life, even when we don't feel ready. And we'll touch on the honest thoughts, emotions and behaviors that may surface when discussing dying and the value of an End Of Life Doula while navigating through these experiences.
What was the catalyst for you stepping into this work? How did you end up here, at this moment, doing what you do?
I believe the catalyst for doing this work is purpose. I've always wanted to do work that provides personal value and hopefully leaves a lasting mark in my lifetime. I'm where I am today because someone saw something in me that I knew was there, however I had know idea what I could do professionally to move in that expression. A seed was planted in me. I'm forever grateful for that.
What do you hope people get from working with you or interacting with your services?
I hope the people I'm able to work with know and feel I genuinely care about the interaction we're having and see the true value a Death Doula offers in a space that is sometimes difficult to steer.
What do you wish was different about the way we are supported when dying, grieving, and navigating end-of-life in general? What would you change?
I wish everyone had the actual support and at times advocacy needed in the death and dying process. I wish everyone had a person or people at the end of their life so they don't have to die alone. I wish family and friends had the support needed in order to grieve once their loved one has transitioned.
What would you say to someone who is nervous about attending events about death or grief?
I would say to that person, it's not uncommon to have fears around death and grief and how I understand the thought of loss is uncomfortable and often scary. I would share with them, attending an event that could prepare you for the end of life does not mean its ending today or tomorrow. I would say to them attending an event allows you to be informed about options and can give you some tools to cope with death and grief.
If someone meets you at the resource fair - what's a question you invite them to ask you?
I would invite them to ask what roles a Death Doula can have in supporting someone in their transitioning and what are some misconceptions about Death Doulas.